"I have decided to keep a journal because I believe that my life is important not only to myself but also to others. Perhaps I can stimulate others in my family to do likewise so that the family may be strengthened through deeper communication. Only that material which keynote the central themes of my life and its experiences will be recorded. Certainly it will not always be serious because I enjoy a sense of humor and do not take myself serious enough to think that everything that happens to me is earth-shattering. In fact, I enjoy a good laugh with others when my antics and habits are in review. It would be more than I could ever hope for, if my wonderful and choice family – those now living and those yet to embrace life here upon this earth – would read my thoughts and come to understand me as I desire to understand them. Then a love would develop in all our hearts for our God; for one another; for life; and for the quest for eternal life together. And so whenever a record is being made I pray that the Spirit might be with me that it will be felt by those who read these words in the spirit of truth. Only the decisions that pertain to our relationships with our Father in Heaven and the Savior are important. All other decisions will be of little consequence."

Showing posts with label family home evening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family home evening. Show all posts

Monday, January 16, 1978

January 16, 1978

Tonight was a very special family home evening. We went to the church to play basketball (Norma, Chris, Carol, Duncan, Rick, Eric II, Trina and myself). We did it to teach Eric how to play.


Would you believe that it was the first time in my life I had played basketball? At age 57 I was able to run and keep up with the young ones of the family—I thoroughly enjoyed myself!!!

Thursday, December 26, 1974

December 26, 1974 A Letter to President Kimball

Dear President Kimball,

Our family completed our Christmas day by reading your address "Home--The Place to Save Society". With grateful hearts we sensed that our family life is to a measurable degree in harmony with your message.

Today, as I sit in our study writing this letter there is a portrait of you adjacent to the Savior which smiles back at me and stamps the fire of gratitude in my soul because you are who you are. The events, trials, and afflictions of your life indicate to me how you have been nurtured, tempered, and refined by the Lord to lead His children in these turbulent times.

How can I, personally, ever thank you for having lived your life and made choices in the pre-existence and in moral life--that not provided the strength for you to bear the keys of the kingdom that worthy families may find eternal life.

I know that you spend inordinate hours of service to others but it occurs to me that there is a need for expression of the love and awesome esteem others feel for you.

Although we have never met, I feel a love of deep spiritual dimension for you. As you are a prophet to the world and the church, I seek through your teachings, as a living oracle, and by searching the scriptures, to be a prophet to my family. My every thought and desire is to raise up a righteous family to the Lord.

As you indicate a 38 percent incidence of single parents in a UT community and state that many of our children become orphans in one way or another", my heart mourns because when I was teaching seminary I came to believe that only perhaps ten percent of our youth were being taught the Gospel of Jesus Christ in their homes. Moreover, today more than ever before, there must be a strong father in the home as a teacher, for the children to know--to feel--and receive the true living water.

I was reared (as a gospel orphan) in a latter-day Saint home and born of goodly, honorable parents,. Because my father presented a strong image as a dedicated physical; and even though my beloved mother lived gospel principles, I mistakenly allowed medicine to assume a temporary top priority in my life.

Fifteen years ago a series of catastrophes began in our lives to last for a six year period. After a series of deaths in our family, we were given the choice to rear and be guardians to seven children. I feel that my wife and I were preserved in order that the Lord might send us to His school. In August when all the family but to reunited, there were seventeen people involved. My visionary eyes tell me that in another ten years we would be possibly a family of fifty. At present, one son has completed a mission; one is now on a mission, and two others have been committed to missions since the ages of fourteen and nine. This experience has taught me that there is a great deal of difference between a physical and a spiritual person as a parent.

Dear President Kimball, i testify that this miracle could never have happened had it not been for Family Home Evening and Family Prayer because these children came from an inactive church background.

Having known to some degree the worldliness of men's honors, I am grateful for the opportunity to have made the decisions that now place me in a position where I esteem my Heavenly parents, the Savior, and seek often them diligently to discern that which in this world may be embraced as a guide to celestial life.

With all my heart and soul, I sustain you as the Living Prophet and look to you for nourishment. I consider it one of the great blessings of my life to have sojourned this earth for a time with you and hope that my humble worlds will convey how you are constantly in my life and the warmth, love, strength, humility and charity that you convey to one such as me.

May God bless you in your immense responsibilities and touch your heart that you may know the sincerity of these words and thoughts.

Sincerely,

Brother Kirk J. Anderson

P.S. This letter requires no answer. It originated only because of the need in my heart for expression of my feelings for and about you on a personal basis--

Tuesday, August 13, 1974

August 13, 1974



Tonight we had a wonderful family home evening. There were 17 people present. Jane has just returned home from the Hill Cumorah Pageant and she and Carol sang a very beautiful song. We then, each one, told how and what we had been doing this past year. I told the family that I feel a special compelling drive by the Spirit that we should have a family business, I feel so strongly about this that I feel I can prophesy that it will come about. If we do not we may tend to splinter off as the children marry. Our family solidarity and unity will continue if we are held together. Now, I know that we can have a family business if we will combine our faith and prayers to this end.
            This was what I told the family, that if they desire this then they too should pray about it. Otherwise, it will only be known as a pipe dream of mine. I feel that Jacob’s family was a model to us and any family that desires to live the Lord’s way. There is no reason why we cannot have the same blessings if we go about things in the way that has been shown to us. I desire to do everything that will bring this about for this family.

Wednesday, February 20, 1974

Feb 20, 1974



This week we had a wonderful, memorable family home evening. The highlight was a discussion regarding “calling and election made sure”. While I was accumulating material, I came upon a most exciting bit of information that indicates that Bishop David Evans, my great-grandfather had his calling and election made sure in the celestial kingdom when he was a member of Zion’s Camp. I am enclosing the information for perusal by those who are interested. This gives me great hope and assurance that I might do the same – also, it is reassuring to know that David Evans is a member of the Church of the Firstborn and is concerned about his family, including us, on this side of the veil, in helping us to work out our salvation and contribute to the geneaology of this family.

[Pg 54 & 55 are enclosed documents with significant dates/events in the life of Bishop David Evans. It appears that Kirk wrote this sketch and attached it in this journal. It is two pages and includes this on the 2nd page, which seemed a particular interest to Kirk: “Note! Apparently David Evans had his calling and election made sure when a member of Zion’s Camp. Some members of the camp were sealed by the Prophet early but later this blessing was given to all members of the camp – “We were called together again and were sealed up unto eternal life the same as in Kirtland”(from journal of Reuben McBride, BYU Library)”]
PG. 56 – [No Date Provided] Last night I attended Br. Jerry Wilson’s class. The subject was in reference to miracles performed by the Savior and he used as his material the Book of Matthew and Mark. Toward the end of the class I suddenly had a “spiritual understanding” regarding a miracle in our family.
            A few months ago Carol was distraught about school and her ability to learn. At her request I gave her a father’s blessing. In the blessing she was promised that if she would search the scriptures her mind would be cleared of confusion and she would be awakened to the joy of learning. This she earnestly tried to do, but almost simultaneously, Leland began working with Ricky (who has astounded many people in our ward by his knowledge of the Doctrine and Covenants) – and Leland and Shirli in our Family Home Evening created an atmosphere for scripture learning and “scripture chasing”. Since then our FHEvenings have been scripture oriented.
            It was made evident to me that this is the way in which the Lord works and in the case of our family it was by this method that my father’s blessing is being fulfilled. As a result, through promise to Carol, the whole family is profiting.